We talk a lot about sex as an act, less as an attitude. Yet the English language is beset with all sorts of attitude when it comes to oral sex. Phrases like “eat me”, “that blows”, and “suck it” all spring to mind. Good oral sex becomes a benchmark for future lovers and bad…well all those giggling ladies at the bar may be telling a bad oral sex story or three. A humble attitude befits oral sex because of how pleasure helps us feel brand-new add in respect and a touch of body shampoo – it could happen again (or for the first time).