Best way to get over someone…get under some else! I love that saying. It says the path to healing is not mourning why this relationship wasn’t written in the stars — it’s hooking up! For me, it has been a huge relief that our body’s chemistry can quickly and pleasurably lessens sorrow. In other words sex heals, we’re just trained it doesn’t. The quickie, masturbation or videos of cats – whatever lights up the pleasure centers will, given enough time and repetition will re-map one’s brain. Pleasure is powerful! Dose regularly with orgasms and see if you need still need quite so many self-help tapes.