I hate lies, but the truth hurts like hell too. Oh I used to believe I could do it. Do what? Reasonably communicate my true feelings in a calm and honest way. Do I still believe that? I wish! Now I believe sarcasm, like acid, is good in small doses. I don’t have reasonable or calm feelings (unless sleeping). My feelings demand attention! And when they show up – they want the world to know. This is when sarcasm can be healthy. It tells me what my feelings want the moment the sarcastic words leave my mouth, ta-da! It’s also taught me to apologize well.